Sunday, July 29, 2012
Military Wives, War, and Growing Up
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Dogs Welcoming Home Their Military Family Members
Man's best friend reuniting with military family members home from deployments. Isn't there someone you know who needs a little puppy love to lift their spirits today? Pass it on!
Saturday, May 19, 2012
Saturday, May 12, 2012
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Moving, By Emily Parrott, Age 11
Being a military child is unique and has its advantages and disadvantages. We get to have special identification cards at age ten while most non-military have to wait until they are older. We know more about the world than most and can adapt to new situations easily. While most kids usually never set foot outside of their hometowns, we travel all over. But with traveling, comes another experience. That experience is moving. That is what I am going to talk about in this essay.
There are quite a few negative things about moving. But it is part of being a military kid. It is hard to look at it that way, though, when you are actually moving. Sure, you are going somewhere beyond your wildest dreams (or nightmares), but you are leaving friends and possibly family. It is really hard to leave the community that you have worked so hard to fit into. It is a highly frightening experience. "You will make friends when we get there," your parents say, as though you are just walking down the street to visit a family. "It is an adventure!" they declare, "and whether you like it or not we are going!" Yes, moving can be a pain in the neck sometimes, but it isn't going to change anything if you whine.
Though there are lots of bad things about moving, there are also lots of good things about moving too! It is usually fun to move to exotic places. If you happen to move back, you already have friends!
Also, have you ever heard the song that goes "Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other is gold?" Well, that song is true. You can still keep in touch with old friends. And new friends are always out there! In school, in the neighborhood, and at activities, new friends are everywhere, waiting for you to discover. If you put yourself forward, anything is possible!
Personally, I have moved five times in the last eleven years. All of those moves have been really helpful to me. For example, moving has taught me how to easily cope with changes like switching houses and making new friends.
The experiences that military kids have give us advantages that don't seem like advantages to non-military kids, like flexibility. Flexibility is important to learn as a child because it helps you cope as an adult. I have learned to love moving because it is something I do every two or three years. For instance, when I moved from Maryland to Sicily, Italy, I was excited to move to somewhere exotic. Plus, I kept in touch with my old friends until I found new ones.
Moving, as I mentioned before, is part of being in the military. It is fun sometimes, but the ups and downs are tremendous. I write this essay in hopes that it will help other kids in the military. I personally think moving is exciting after all the boxes are gone. It quickly becomes a piece of cake and a stroll down Easy Lane with a picnic basket full of fun in your hand.
Though the military is tough, it is part of your life. Just think of all the advantages you have over other kids! You have everything better off than them. You can use your vast knowledge to help! When it all comes down to it, the military life is the choice I would choose to have as a kid. You get to see new places and other new things! The military life lives through thick and thin. So go and get those new experiences!
About Emily Parrott - at the time she wrote this essay...
Emily K. Parrott is a sixth grader at Sigonella Middle/High School. She has won all of the honor awards for grades offered and has won a poetry contest for her work, The Symphony of Words. She is very active and swims all week. Other times, after swimming, she does karate. Currently she is a white belt. She is living in Sicily, Italy. She loves her two dogs and “pet” brother. Her mom and dad are very loving, too. She enjoys roller-skating a lot. Her school activity is violin. She also plays guitar. She really loves origami. That is Emily P.
There are quite a few negative things about moving. But it is part of being a military kid. It is hard to look at it that way, though, when you are actually moving. Sure, you are going somewhere beyond your wildest dreams (or nightmares), but you are leaving friends and possibly family. It is really hard to leave the community that you have worked so hard to fit into. It is a highly frightening experience. "You will make friends when we get there," your parents say, as though you are just walking down the street to visit a family. "It is an adventure!" they declare, "and whether you like it or not we are going!" Yes, moving can be a pain in the neck sometimes, but it isn't going to change anything if you whine.
Though there are lots of bad things about moving, there are also lots of good things about moving too! It is usually fun to move to exotic places. If you happen to move back, you already have friends!
Also, have you ever heard the song that goes "Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other is gold?" Well, that song is true. You can still keep in touch with old friends. And new friends are always out there! In school, in the neighborhood, and at activities, new friends are everywhere, waiting for you to discover. If you put yourself forward, anything is possible!
Personally, I have moved five times in the last eleven years. All of those moves have been really helpful to me. For example, moving has taught me how to easily cope with changes like switching houses and making new friends.
The experiences that military kids have give us advantages that don't seem like advantages to non-military kids, like flexibility. Flexibility is important to learn as a child because it helps you cope as an adult. I have learned to love moving because it is something I do every two or three years. For instance, when I moved from Maryland to Sicily, Italy, I was excited to move to somewhere exotic. Plus, I kept in touch with my old friends until I found new ones.
Moving, as I mentioned before, is part of being in the military. It is fun sometimes, but the ups and downs are tremendous. I write this essay in hopes that it will help other kids in the military. I personally think moving is exciting after all the boxes are gone. It quickly becomes a piece of cake and a stroll down Easy Lane with a picnic basket full of fun in your hand.
Though the military is tough, it is part of your life. Just think of all the advantages you have over other kids! You have everything better off than them. You can use your vast knowledge to help! When it all comes down to it, the military life is the choice I would choose to have as a kid. You get to see new places and other new things! The military life lives through thick and thin. So go and get those new experiences!
About Emily Parrott - at the time she wrote this essay...
Emily K. Parrott is a sixth grader at Sigonella Middle/High School. She has won all of the honor awards for grades offered and has won a poetry contest for her work, The Symphony of Words. She is very active and swims all week. Other times, after swimming, she does karate. Currently she is a white belt. She is living in Sicily, Italy. She loves her two dogs and “pet” brother. Her mom and dad are very loving, too. She enjoys roller-skating a lot. Her school activity is violin. She also plays guitar. She really loves origami. That is Emily P.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Interview with Presidential Candidate Newt Gingrich about His Childhood in an Army Family
Excerpts of the Interview with Presidential Candidate Newt Gingrich
by Military Family Expert and author, Julie Rahm as printed in the book Military Kids Speak
Military Kids Speak is available everywhere books are sold.
Find out more at http://www.militarykidsspeak.com/.
Get your copy at Amazon.com (click here)!
Your father was in the Army. Who else was in your family growing up?
My mother married my biological father Newt McPherson who served in the Navy in World War II. And then they got divorced and she remarried to my stepfather Bob Gingrich, who was career Army. On my original biological father’s side, I have a half-brother, Randy, and a half-sister named Kathy. And on the other side, I have three half-sisters, Susan, Robbie and Candace. Candace wasn’t born until 1967, so she came late. Growing up, I spent most of my time with my mother and my stepfather and my two sisters on that side.
Which place was your favorite to live and why?
I think Orléans, France, was the most exotic. We left Pennsylvania when I was 10 years old. And I liked Pennsylvania. We had relatives in the mountains just below State College. We would go up and stay there during the summer and go looking for deer. It was fun. I felt a little bit like the way somebody once described Theodore Roosevelt, as a man who could get excited discovering rocks on a beach and who each morning thought he had rediscovered the Ten Commandments. There’s this sense of life bubbling. I was always struck by a cornerstone on a bank building at Fort Riley that read, “Site of the Northernmost Comanche Raid in 1855.” For a young kid from Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, to be in the middle of the west looking out over that flat space and wondering what it would have been like in 1855 to see 50 or 60 or 70 Comanche Indians, I had the sense of “Wow. This was real.”
I had the same feeling in Harrisburg. We had buttons and other things from Gettysburg where one of my grandfathers had served. And Gettysburg was right down the road. That’s where my father had gone to college. So I had the sense of things being real. Orleans was the most interesting in the sense that my dad was too low in rank to live in Army housing. So we lived in a beautiful little town by a river about 18 miles west of Orleans toward the sea. We were there when the U.S. dollar was very strong. We were able to rent a fabulous small chateau where we got the first two floors. It had a walled-in garden of five acres. They had a gardener and a maid who lived on the site and took care of everything. And here we were, little American kids running around thinking, “Wow. This is cool!” I remember one of the great moments was going to the French fairs with dirt streets. Western string ties were in style. So we would go to the Post Exchange and buy as many string ties as we could. And we would take them to the fair and trade them for bottles of Champagne. We were only 12 or 13 years old and there were no drinking laws in France. We thought we were pretty big kids.
Was it easy for you to make new friends?
I guess so. My dad was a very tough infantryman. He believed in pretty tough and straightforward rules. On my biological father’s side, my father and my favorite uncle (who helped raise me) were also very tough people. And so, all of them basically had this very stoic attitude of you get to a new place you meet new people. What a great adventure. Quit whining. There was zero sympathy for “oh, I hate leaving these folks.” I suspect at one level, I hated leaving people. But I lived in this huge extended family, so my basic attitude was there was always someone I could go to who would either bake me a sugar pie or I could talk them into taking me to a zoo. So I kept on with the same attitude as I had in Fort Riley, wondering what would happen next, wondering who I would meet. It led to a very different life. I sometimes compare notes with my wife whose oldest friend goes back to the crying room at the church at two or three years of age. So they really know each other. I had the double tragedy that my two best friends from high school both died of cancer at very early ages. But I have an enormous range of friends and some very close friends. It is different, though, when you live in a world where either you’re about to move or they’re about to move, or somebody new is about to show up, or you’re about to show up. You do learn a whole different set of skills about how you meet people. With the rise of Facebook, you probably have a better chance of keeping up with a lot of people now. I wasn’t good at that at the time. I was too busy focused on the next great adventure.
How do you think being a military kid built your character?
Being an infantryman’s son, I learned a lot of stoicism. I learned a work ethic. I learned a lot of sense of endurance. I learned that if you’re in the infantry, you have the notion that you’ll end up somewhere where nobody knows where you are and nobody remembers why they sent you there, you’re out of ammunition, and it’s about to be a bad morning. And that’s what you sign up for.
I remember I was with General Burba when we were mobilizing and training the 48th Brigade. We were down in Fort Stewart. I was a Congressman. Part of the Brigade came from my district. It was a National Guard unit. We ran across a bunch of guys who had been marching all day. They were in the rain and it was fairly chilly. They were supposed to meet the wagon that had the food and hot drinks. And the wagon wasn’t there. And it hadn’t been there for three hours. They were standing there in the rain and I felt like that was the Army. I understood it. The reason you try to have overwhelming power is that things get messed up all of the time. Now, with modern GPS and equipment, it’s better. But things still get messed up. Look at the complexity of responding to help Haiti after the earthquake. It looks really simple until you try to do it.
I came out of that kind of background. Fort Riley was particularly important in that regard. Our neighbor was part of the aggressor squadron. Those were the guys whose job it was to pretend to be the enemy and to keep the American troops training at a very high tempo. This was in the 1950s, so these were the guys who had fought in World War II and Korea. So they had been in really big wars and really tough situations. They wanted to prepare other troops for that kind of tension and stress. And they would let me go out with them on certain occasions to see what they did and how they did it. At one point, there was a film group called The Big Picture that was an Army TV show. They were there to film camouflage and other things. And they said “Why don’t you come out and spend the day with us?” For a little kid, this was fabulous. I got to wander around and watch the cameraman and watch the director. I got to learn about camouflage. So the result is that nothing has surprised me in the political world. Mao Tse Tung once said that “War is politics with blood. Politics is war without blood.” I think that being an infantryman’s son is a pretty good background for what I’ve done in the rest of my life.
What motto do you live by that relates to or might inspire other military kids?
West Point—Duty, honor, country. I think that’s a very important concept. And listening to the words of the Pledge of Allegiance and the Star-Spangled Banner, and remembering the phrase “land of the free and home of the brave” is really important to remember, and for kids to realize that their parents are doing something very different than almost anybody else. My father was literally prepared to give his life for 27 years, and thought that it was essential that somebody be prepared to do that. So I would say first of all, that young people be instilled with a sense of pride for what their parents are doing. That they should look around and appreciate the level of dedication, discipline, and sacrifice they see in their community. And, to some extent, carry that pride with them out into the civilian world. And, recognize that it would be nice in some ways if America was a little more like the pride, discipline, and commitment we get out of people that volunteer for the military.
Read more of the interview with Newt Gingrich in Military Kids Speak - available at http://militarykidsspeak.com/ and Amazon.com.
by Military Family Expert and author, Julie Rahm as printed in the book Military Kids Speak
Military Kids Speak is available everywhere books are sold.
Find out more at http://www.militarykidsspeak.com/.
Get your copy at Amazon.com (click here)!
Your father was in the Army. Who else was in your family growing up?
My mother married my biological father Newt McPherson who served in the Navy in World War II. And then they got divorced and she remarried to my stepfather Bob Gingrich, who was career Army. On my original biological father’s side, I have a half-brother, Randy, and a half-sister named Kathy. And on the other side, I have three half-sisters, Susan, Robbie and Candace. Candace wasn’t born until 1967, so she came late. Growing up, I spent most of my time with my mother and my stepfather and my two sisters on that side.
Which place was your favorite to live and why?
I think Orléans, France, was the most exotic. We left Pennsylvania when I was 10 years old. And I liked Pennsylvania. We had relatives in the mountains just below State College. We would go up and stay there during the summer and go looking for deer. It was fun. I felt a little bit like the way somebody once described Theodore Roosevelt, as a man who could get excited discovering rocks on a beach and who each morning thought he had rediscovered the Ten Commandments. There’s this sense of life bubbling. I was always struck by a cornerstone on a bank building at Fort Riley that read, “Site of the Northernmost Comanche Raid in 1855.” For a young kid from Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, to be in the middle of the west looking out over that flat space and wondering what it would have been like in 1855 to see 50 or 60 or 70 Comanche Indians, I had the sense of “Wow. This was real.”
I had the same feeling in Harrisburg. We had buttons and other things from Gettysburg where one of my grandfathers had served. And Gettysburg was right down the road. That’s where my father had gone to college. So I had the sense of things being real. Orleans was the most interesting in the sense that my dad was too low in rank to live in Army housing. So we lived in a beautiful little town by a river about 18 miles west of Orleans toward the sea. We were there when the U.S. dollar was very strong. We were able to rent a fabulous small chateau where we got the first two floors. It had a walled-in garden of five acres. They had a gardener and a maid who lived on the site and took care of everything. And here we were, little American kids running around thinking, “Wow. This is cool!” I remember one of the great moments was going to the French fairs with dirt streets. Western string ties were in style. So we would go to the Post Exchange and buy as many string ties as we could. And we would take them to the fair and trade them for bottles of Champagne. We were only 12 or 13 years old and there were no drinking laws in France. We thought we were pretty big kids.
Was it easy for you to make new friends?
I guess so. My dad was a very tough infantryman. He believed in pretty tough and straightforward rules. On my biological father’s side, my father and my favorite uncle (who helped raise me) were also very tough people. And so, all of them basically had this very stoic attitude of you get to a new place you meet new people. What a great adventure. Quit whining. There was zero sympathy for “oh, I hate leaving these folks.” I suspect at one level, I hated leaving people. But I lived in this huge extended family, so my basic attitude was there was always someone I could go to who would either bake me a sugar pie or I could talk them into taking me to a zoo. So I kept on with the same attitude as I had in Fort Riley, wondering what would happen next, wondering who I would meet. It led to a very different life. I sometimes compare notes with my wife whose oldest friend goes back to the crying room at the church at two or three years of age. So they really know each other. I had the double tragedy that my two best friends from high school both died of cancer at very early ages. But I have an enormous range of friends and some very close friends. It is different, though, when you live in a world where either you’re about to move or they’re about to move, or somebody new is about to show up, or you’re about to show up. You do learn a whole different set of skills about how you meet people. With the rise of Facebook, you probably have a better chance of keeping up with a lot of people now. I wasn’t good at that at the time. I was too busy focused on the next great adventure.
How do you think being a military kid built your character?
Being an infantryman’s son, I learned a lot of stoicism. I learned a work ethic. I learned a lot of sense of endurance. I learned that if you’re in the infantry, you have the notion that you’ll end up somewhere where nobody knows where you are and nobody remembers why they sent you there, you’re out of ammunition, and it’s about to be a bad morning. And that’s what you sign up for.
I remember I was with General Burba when we were mobilizing and training the 48th Brigade. We were down in Fort Stewart. I was a Congressman. Part of the Brigade came from my district. It was a National Guard unit. We ran across a bunch of guys who had been marching all day. They were in the rain and it was fairly chilly. They were supposed to meet the wagon that had the food and hot drinks. And the wagon wasn’t there. And it hadn’t been there for three hours. They were standing there in the rain and I felt like that was the Army. I understood it. The reason you try to have overwhelming power is that things get messed up all of the time. Now, with modern GPS and equipment, it’s better. But things still get messed up. Look at the complexity of responding to help Haiti after the earthquake. It looks really simple until you try to do it.
I came out of that kind of background. Fort Riley was particularly important in that regard. Our neighbor was part of the aggressor squadron. Those were the guys whose job it was to pretend to be the enemy and to keep the American troops training at a very high tempo. This was in the 1950s, so these were the guys who had fought in World War II and Korea. So they had been in really big wars and really tough situations. They wanted to prepare other troops for that kind of tension and stress. And they would let me go out with them on certain occasions to see what they did and how they did it. At one point, there was a film group called The Big Picture that was an Army TV show. They were there to film camouflage and other things. And they said “Why don’t you come out and spend the day with us?” For a little kid, this was fabulous. I got to wander around and watch the cameraman and watch the director. I got to learn about camouflage. So the result is that nothing has surprised me in the political world. Mao Tse Tung once said that “War is politics with blood. Politics is war without blood.” I think that being an infantryman’s son is a pretty good background for what I’ve done in the rest of my life.
What motto do you live by that relates to or might inspire other military kids?
West Point—Duty, honor, country. I think that’s a very important concept. And listening to the words of the Pledge of Allegiance and the Star-Spangled Banner, and remembering the phrase “land of the free and home of the brave” is really important to remember, and for kids to realize that their parents are doing something very different than almost anybody else. My father was literally prepared to give his life for 27 years, and thought that it was essential that somebody be prepared to do that. So I would say first of all, that young people be instilled with a sense of pride for what their parents are doing. That they should look around and appreciate the level of dedication, discipline, and sacrifice they see in their community. And, to some extent, carry that pride with them out into the civilian world. And, recognize that it would be nice in some ways if America was a little more like the pride, discipline, and commitment we get out of people that volunteer for the military.
Read more of the interview with Newt Gingrich in Military Kids Speak - available at http://militarykidsspeak.com/ and Amazon.com.
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